Real Men and Their Oral Sex Confessions

Author: Gabrielle Moore

As an end to this series on oral sex on him (fellatio), I'd like to share with you some of the things that my other subscribers have shared when it comes to oral sex. Maybe you can relate to them, maybe you won't. Either way, it's a great means to start a conversation with your loved one on what you REALLY want to happen when she goes down on you.

HIS Oral Sex 'Wish List'

I wish she would use her hands more often.
A lot of women - thanks to highly incorrect scenes in adult movies - think that fellatio is all about using her mouth and trying to fit his manhood in it as much as she can take. Although he likes seeing this too, really, it gives many men more pleasure if their partners used their mouth on the top of their manhood (or just what she can comfortably insert in her mouth) and then use her hands for the rest.

The reason for this is that this way, she gets to pleasure him thoroughly from end to tip. When women try to deep-throat their men, he starts to think subconsciously... 'uh oh, she's about to gag any minute now' or 'she might end up biting me; that will hurt!'.

Here's a tip for women: Put him in your mouth and lavish attention to its top. Now use one of your hands to encircle his manhood at the bottom and then move your hands up and down just till your mouth. Now move your mouth up and down, in perfect coordination with your hand. As far as his manhood is concerned, that's all over attention!

I wish she would stare at me during doing oral sex.
Even today, many women hesitate to perform oral sex on their men because of the 'negative, 'dirty' and 'sinful' connotations that it has. As such, even when women do perform fellatio, they tend to really bow their heads and avoid eye contact. And this is the opposite of what men want. Most men like their women to be challenging and naughty when performing oral sex.

Here's a tip for women: While performing fellatio, look up and give him a full-on stare! Let your eyes communicate that you love every minute of him in your mouth and that you - and only you - can give him mind-blowing oral sex like this.

I wish she would take her time.
If women are frustrated at how 'fast' men make love in bed, many men are frustrated at the fact that women seem to want to rush through oral sex. Most men actually like to lie back and watch their women for awhile while they're busy down there. Yes, it's a great ego boost!
Here's a tip for women: Go ahead, have LAZY oral sex. You don't need to 'attack' him as if there's no tomorrow. Lie on your side and let his leg support your body. Rest your shoulder and the side of your head on his thighs. Let your mouth treat his manhood like a never ending, tasty lollipop.

I wish she would let me treat her like a 'paid girl'.
Many men are so grateful already that their woman are performing oral sex on them that they pretty much go along with whatever she wants to do, never voicing out what they want. Well, it's a fact. Many men like to fantasize about paying for sex, not because they're not committed to their women, but because they have a hard time asking their partners to try what they want to try.

Here's a tip for women: When you're down there pleasuring him, make naughty eye contact. Let him know that you're 'game' and that you can be the 'bad girl' of his dreams. Of course, be prepared for what he may want (he may want you to deep-throat him, or yank at your hair, or swallow his seed, etc.) and be honest if you really want to do it or not.

I wish she would play with my 'backdoor'.
Many men will not even admit this themselves, but in truth, a lot of them want their backdoors to be played with during oral sex. It raises the naughty, forbidden factor and yes, it can bring tremendous sexual pleasure!

Here's a tip for women: When you're down there performing oral sex on him, try and reach for his backdoor. If he's lying down, run a finger firmly from the base of his jewels to his rear. If he's standing up, embrace him with your arms and try to gently push a finger through his butt cheeks. (This may be harder than you think as he's most likely 'tensed' back there. Pay attention to his body language. If he stiffens up too much, he doesn't like it so let it go at that. If he takes in his breath or moans, you know you can have access. You can also stare him in the eye and wait for him to 'tell you' what he wants.

Have fun boys and girls!

About the Author:

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The http://www.thegspotcode.com ">G Spot Code. It teaches men how to please women with G Spot orgasms every time. For more information, go to: http://www.thegspotcode.com

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