Coping With Jealousy In Swinging

Author: Jerry Leung

As in the case of a threesome there can be jealousy in a swinging relationship. In fact there can be jealousy when you are going to have intimate relationship with other people. So, how should you cope with the jealousy in swinging?

In fact, you have to try to understand why your partner has jealousy. As mention, the jealousy will come when you are having sex with the others. However, if you think about it carefully, it can be more than just this.

As a matter of fact, your partner will start compare when you are having a swinging. Your partner may have jealousy if he / she feel that you perform better in sex when you are swinging. Of course we have to prevent this from happen. Normally you will think carefully before you go for a swinging experience. And you should not engage into a swinging experience if you believe you will develop jealousy. However, you have already engaged into a swinging experience and just find that your partner has jealousy. You have find some ways to cope with it.

As you should probably know, communication is the best way to solve such a problem. In fact, some other problems may come sooner or later if you do not communicate well with your partner. You should first of all discuss with your partner why he / she feel jealous. Of course your partner may not be able to answer this question. In some cases your partner may know the answer but he /she may not want to let you know the answer.

No matter you can get an answer or not, you can probably assume that part of the answer if due to the comparison or competition mentioned before. As a result, you should try to tell your partner that the one you love is your partner but not some others.

You have to let your partner understand thoroughly that swinging is a fantasy in sex and it is also a way to spicy the sex experience. You should be open and honest when you are talking about this with your partner. There is no point to hide your feeling in front of the one you really love.

In some cases your partner may really understand the notion of fantasy in sex but he / she just cannot control and develop jealousy. In this case the best way to solve the problem is to stop swinging till your partner is ready for it again!.

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