Author: Michael Porteous
Spotting infidelity can be a confusing thing and we tend to act irrationally when emotions are high so we often take small innocuous clues to an extreme without giving it any real thought. While it may be tempting to accuse your husband and find out the truth immediately some suspicious signs of a cheating husband may actually be something as simple as trying to organize a surprise party for you or something else so make the right choice and gather all the evidence before you strike. Some signs to look for in your detective work are:
1. Mysterious Phone Calls
Does your husband take many of his phone calls out of your earshot or when you are with him does he screen his calls where he did not before? Or maybe when he is on the phone he sounds a bit strained and guilty? All of these things as mentioned might be something innocent but it is suspicious so it is worth noting but more evidence must be gathered.
2. Missing Time
While no one likes to be tracked, continually pay attention to where your husband is and you may find some inconsistencies. Does he start to work late at work more often? Does he spend way to long out on errands? Do business trips crop up more regularly than ever before? If your husband cannot seem to account for his time or his stories are inconsistent then there is another clue.
3. Change In Sexual Activity
When men are involved in an affair their hormones are all over the place as well as their emotions which can have varied effects in the bedroom. Some may suddenly lose all interest in sex and other may crave it much more while others still may suddenly become way more adventurous than they ever were before. Sudden changes like this may be frame other sources than an affair but combined with other suspicious activates this is another to be worried about.
4. Cleaning Up
In this digital age we can track many things like emails, SMS, Website histories, phone logs and more. If you investigate these things and find them too clean to be normal your husband may be trying to cover his tracks.
5. New Smells
Men seem blissfully unaware most of the time when it comes to smells were females seem to have a very good nose for trouble! Do you find the smell of perfume on your husband? Or maybe cigarette smoke when he is a non smoker? OR maybe he uses new cologne all of a sudden and starts smelling very out of place? You can often tell what a man has been doing by his smell and the smell of his clothes.
6. Money Oddities
If you can easily look at your credit card usage you can see if your money is going to anywhere odd. If your husband buys something at a women's underwear shop for instance you better see that underwear as a gift fairly soon or you can add another to the suspicious activity list.
While none of these signs of a cheating husband prove they are unfaithful if enough evidence is gained you can either confront him about it or move on to catch him red handed now you have enough evidence and clues to help you out. No one wants to be involved in such a terrible thing as an affair and I hope that you find your suspicions unfounded.
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