Sex Tips : What Women Want

I'm going to talk about sex tips from a high level today!

All people are individual and everyone's mother likes to think that their child is a unique little snow flake in the world and different to everyone else! This of course is true to some extent. We are all different. Women are all different. But at a fundamental level, we share a lot of very similar psychological behaviour. And in sexual terms each gender has a common set of arousal triggers. Each gender has a common set of turn on's.

Arousal triggers are what turns us on. They are the way you act, your personality, the way you touch your partner, what you say, the way you say it, and even the way you could smell are all examples of what could be arousal triggers that stimulate her mind.

It goes without saying that all women are individuals and have different specific arousal triggers to each other. What can turn one woman on can turn another off. There are individual arousal triggers specific to each woman, but there are also a core set of arousal triggers common to most women. An example of a specific need maybe that a woman is aroused by muscular legs or giving oral sex. These are examples of individual arousal triggers.

Women have all developed a core similarity in what results in sexual arousal and responsiveness based on the common evolutionary driver of human sexual selection. Charles Darwin had two theories. The more commonly known theory is nick-named "Survival of the fittest", the lesser known one is the theory of "sexual selection". These, in my opinion and Darwinist theory, give humans our primary evolutionary motivators. You can call them the need for survival and and the need for replication. Therefore each gender orientation, male and female, has developed a core similarity in what causes its sexual arousal based on human sexual selection.

So what does this mean to us? It means that in general, woman are attracted and aroused on a subconscious level in much the same way. So there is a core set of arousal triggers creating a sexual response in most women and most men. We can learn these triggers and then learn how to best project these behaviour types to create arousal.

On a high level all women want and need two things in order to be sexually satisfied.

Number one is their emotional needs satisfied and number two is their physical needs satisfied.

Or in other words, the mind and the body. The mind equating to emotional needs and the body, physical or sexual specific needs.

This is an absolutely fundamental notion to understand and remember when it comes to sexual mastery. Both a woman's body AND her mind must be contented for her to be sexually satisfied.

There are two separate parts to her emotional needs for sex. The first part is the level of emotional connection pre sex or before sex can even take place. So for example there may need to be attraction, rapport, trust and so on with the partner. Before a woman will sleep with a man.

The second emotional need is the emotional stimulation during sex. The arousing of the mind. If you satisfy her emotional needs you will almost completely satisfy her.

What you have left are her physical or sexual specific needs. These relate strongly to her emotions anyway. These are things like touch, visual, auditory, olfactory (smell), sex techniques and positions, female orgasms, male orgasm, sexual techniques, sexual performance, sexual fetishes and so on.

If you master just her physical needs she will feel emotionally distant from you. The stereotypical bad boy tends to fulfill her physical needs. He gives her the sort of physical sex she craves but not always the emotional connection. She gets the physical but not the emotional.

If you master just her emotional needs she will crave for sex with someone who can provide her physical needs. This is the stereotypical behaviour of the nice guy. She trusts him, she feels comfortable around him, there is a level of rapport yet she doesn't feel sexual satisfied by him.

If you can master her physical and emotional needs she will be totally fulfilled. To find out more about the common arousal triggers, satisfying her emotional and physical needs and other sex tips check out our website.