How to Become the Guy Girls Want

Author: Jean Pettit

Does the idea of walking up to a girl and asking her out make you feel nervous and sick to the stomach? Do you psych yourself up to talk to her but when the moment actually comes you can’t put the words together or maybe not even go ahead with your plan at all? Trying to end the discomfort of the fear of rejection is one of the biggest ways guys will walk away from a girl without saying what they really want.

Most of the time guys will walk away from trying to date a girl they like before they’ve even started. They want to go ahead with it and talk to her but they just can’t bring themselves to do it.

We must realize that there is a difference between the fear of what may be(the rejection), and actually having a girl offended or shocked at what you say. The fear of rejection does not actually exist. It is illusory, an imagination of what might be. Real rejection is far easier to deal with. If a girl is not interested she will usually say something like “No, thanks.” She might even be flattered that you asked.

The first step in becoming the guy that girls want is to not give in to the fear of rejection. Knowledge is power, and when you go for it and find out whether she likes you or not you can move forward and start building a friendship with her or start looking for someone else. Remember reality is never as bad as we make it to be.

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