By: Paul Zayer
If you question a lot of men what they are looking for, they may first say 'a pretty woman, of course'. Everyone wants to be pretty, and everyone is searching for a pretty face. There is nothing wrong with that, since looks are the first thing that draw us to someone. However, it is what happens next that counts. A pretty woman is only as beautiful as what comes out of her mouth. She can be good-looking, but if her personality turns you off, you can be surprised to find that after a while, she suddenly does not appear like such a pretty woman after all.
When it comes to online dating, you can only really go on looks to start with, and that may be a problem. If you look for a pretty woman, you are going to find one. The problem is that there are so many individuals who post pictures of another person, or they use the one photo of themselves that accidentally makes them look pretty. Even if the photo you look at of a pretty woman is indeed a correct photo of who the individual is, how do you know what they are really like?
A profile doesn't tell you much. You must go by looks, but don't ignore the ones you may think aren't exactly your idea of a pretty woman. The ones you notice that you think are 'ok' may end up being gorgeous to you as soon as you get to know them. You must open up communication to start getting to know someone, and then you can decide if you have met a pretty woman or not. You may find that your dream girl is vindictive, manipulative, or that her best quality is the ability to bore you to death. If you are really looking for a relationship, that sort of woman is not going to work, no matter how pretty she might be.
The same can work in reverse. A guy starts to be more attractive to a woman through his personality, and can become unattractive if he is arrogant, brash, mean, bossy, or just simply a jerk. A pretty man or a pretty woman is not something you can tell when you first see someone. It is really something that comes from within. A pretty woman has a natural beauty, which is improved by what comes from inside of her heart. Beauty doesn't guarantee you will connect and only gets you so far. Some fantasies are better left unfulfilled.
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