Make Her Comfortable About Sleeping with You for the First Time

Author: Paul Corral

We all know women enjoy sex as much as we do. The problem is women are constantly judged and programmed from a very young age that women are not suppose to jump into bed with a man too fast. You will hear terms like "token resistance" and "anti-slut defense" What these terms mean is she is putting up resistance because she doesn't want to feel cheap, but she want desperately for you to ease the transitions and make her feel good about her decision to sleep with you.

Now, unfortunately in these times it is necessary to mention that no, means, no and stop means stop! Don't go do something stupid and say I told you to do it. There I covered myself, moving on...

The first thing you should remember is solid game up until the point of physical intimacy is key. Anticipation and sexual tension is half the fun, especially for women. Principles of sexual communication, physical escalation, and taking two steps forward and one step back are all key elements that lead you to sex. These are different subjects worthy of independent study. (See works cited for more on these subjects). What we want to cover now is the last moments before sex.

Elevate the level of intimacy gradually. Don't just go strait for her breasts and try to rip her top off. Its called foreplay, you should try it some time, trust me women love it. Ok, all kidding aside, Take frequent brakes when building up to higher levels of physical intimacy. This builds incredible sexual tension and instead of seeming too forward, she will want you to reengage with here. These are universal principles found in the writings of all the top gurus worth learning from.

Now, when women give token resistance, like stopping briefly and saying "we shouldn't be doing this" This is token resistance. IF she says, "No, stop" she means it. If you get token resistance, you can act as if she is seducing you by saying, "your right" and continue kissing her, or "I'm sorry you just do that to me" And continue to kiss her.

So, remember, build the tension over time and when it gets close to time for sex, take it slower and build the sexual tension into a fevered pitch until she is begging for it. Now there are several logistical considerations and situations like getting her home and into the bedroom that need to be handled with finesse. So keep reading and learning and most importantly learning through experience.

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