How to Create the Perfect Mood for an Evening of Great Sex

Author: Paul Corral

Preparing for an intimate night with a special lady is a bit more involved than most men think. Sure sometimes spontaneity and reckless abandon sex is great with no preparation. However, if you want to do something special and receive something special in return, do some preparation. Needless to say women love to feel pampered and well taken care of, do this and she will be very grateful!

First prepare your digs. Clean the bedroom, and the bathroom before she gets there. Make sure the roommates are gone for the evening if you have them and kids at the sitters if you have them.

Other preparations can include a good meal. Never choose to make anything that is messy or hard to eat without looking like a slob. Never prepare food that is too heavy, and nothing that is too spicy, or smelly like heavy garlic, onion, or anything that will stick in your teeth.

Now here is were your preparation will make the night truly special for her. Find out at least two to three things that she loves personally. We suggest her favorite flower, drink: like champagne, and even mellow tunes she prefers. She will notice when you have put the thought into catering specifically to her. This is simple and affordable while creating a huge impact!

Take things slow and listen. Try not to be so structured with the course of the evening events. Just as important is to listen carefully and allow your lady to express her thoughts without you trying to jump in with an opinion, and never be judgmental or critical.

These days men have hang ups when giving compliments We may adore women but are reluctant to compliment them because it seems so common they don't appreciate it. There is nothing wrong with complimenting a woman if you know how. You can compliment her looks, but stay away from the over used "your so beautiful" If you must compliment her looks try something more specific like her eyes, hair skin, smile, etc. The better way to compliment her is to compliment her on how she caries herself, how she moves, her attitudes and energy, anything else but just physical looks.

Be a gentleman is. Another thing men are reluctant to do these days because they feel it goes largely unappreciated. It all depends on the context guys! This means you treat her like a lady because you pride yourself on being a gentleman and not because you are trying to suck up to her to get laid. The small things like opening doors, walking on the outside, and pulling chairs out will make a huge difference.

Unexpected gifts are gold! This does not mean something expensive. The two factors that make a gift great for a woman is spontaneity (give her a gift for no reason or particular occasion) and the gift must be something personally meaningful for her. Take an interest in her interests, and find a related gift. A gift that relates to her personal interests is far better than the generic jewelry type gifts. (Although as a side note, jewelry never goes wrong).

Last, go the extra mile in making your place a romantic setting. Bust out the bottle of the good stuff, get some cheap tea candles, throw some good music on real soft in the back ground, throw some rose peddles around and feed her some chocolate covered strawberries, are just a few ideas.

This article is obviously meant for the guy who has a very special sweet thang in his life and not just a woman he is seeing casually. That does not mean that you can't use this guide to set up a more casual fun evening, just scale it back a bit and have fun.

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