Do not Plan Against Others

By: Dalip Singh Wasan

Do not plan against others.

We are human being and at times we start disliking someone and in our heart of heart we start thinking against that fellow. This process consumes much time of us and at most of the time we remain busy in –planning things against that fellow.
We want friendship from all, but it is not possible to establish friendship with all. There are some people, who could not get place in our heart on the first meeting. Even after lapse of so many days, we find that we could not start liking that person. We do not like all, but at the same time we are not against all who do not come within our liking zone. But there are people who act against us and who also do not like us and are thinking against us. As a reaction, we also start thinking against them and then the process started in our heart continues day and night and as and when we are free, that fellow comes in our mind occupies most of our time.
We are not able to avoid planning against that fellow, but since this process takes much of our time, energy and happiness, we should think on this subject. The process of thinking about this man creates much tension in our mind and at times, we fee that we are present in the battle of Panipat or in the field of Kurkshetra. This process is bad and we should try to come out this process. We shall have to take efforts ourselves because none other shall be able to clear our mind.
We can meet that fellow and we can clear our mind. When we shall be meeting him time and again, he shall be starting liking us and there are possibilities that we too shall start liking him. And if we fail to persuade him and we too are not in a position to clear our heart, we should start taking efforts not to meet him, not to see him and go far away from that fellow. Far from eyes shall be far from our heart and this principle must be adopted. We want a free life and therefore, this man is consuming much of our time and we are also frustrated and under tension because of this fellow. So we should try to forget this fellow. This fellow should not come in our mind. We want a tension free life and therefore, there should be a very few people who do not come within our liking zone.

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