6 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend

Author: Michael Porteous

The insecurity and uncertainty of suspicion of infidelity is a poison to relationships that must be purged by the truth or it will fracture whether the accusation is true or not. Too many either accuse without proof ignoring the signs of a cheating boyfriend or wait too long for some concrete proof and live a life of simmering anger and frustration. In the interests of making a better informed decision on what to pursue here are 6 signs your boyfriend may be unfaithful.

• Mysterious Phone Calls: When engaged in cheating your boyfriend may start acting oddly when receiving phone calls. Either screening them when you are around or perhaps taking the call out of your earshot or if you can listen in he may talk oddly and uncomfortably. While this does not mean he IS cheating on you is it some evidence you can gather.


• Missing Time: While most people do not have an issue with knowing where their boyfriend is at all times there are some things that can seem rather odd when it comes to where they spend their time. Sometimes being very late from work a lot may mean they are working hard and other times it might mean they are seeing their mistress. If they seem less than honest when telling you where they were at some points you may also take this as a suspicious act but if you press them it does no good and will make them simply close down to you guilty OR innocent.


• Change In Sexual Activity: If your relationship is sexual then you may notice some changes if your boyfriend is cheating. This can range from a lack of sex to increased sex or varied and very different sex. Man act differently in these circumstances but their hormones are raging with the guilt and excitement so changes can be hard to hide.


• Cleaning Up:In this age digital age there can be whole reams of evidence against them and even incriminating evidence that can be found if you know where to look. Canny guys know this and may go to extreme lengths to "clean up" the evidence. IF your boyfriends phone seems very empty of messages, phone logs and so forth and do does their email it can be suspicious especially if they never paid much attention to that before.

* New Smells: Guys can be very bad at hiding this one as most women are quite good with smell. Your boyfriend could start smelling different including perfume from another, cigarette smoke maybe if they area non-smoker or even new aftershave or body spray when they didn't use it before. This can be very suspicious if you know them well and these smells are foreign.
* Strained Friendships: Another aspect to consider is that your friends may KNOW about his cheating but will not say anything out of loyalty to him or perhaps out of pity of you to spare you the hurt. If your mutual friends start acting strangely or maybe even dropping odd hints then this may be evidence of infidelity. Be wary of asking these friends directly though as this could make them very nervous, hostile or distant which may be bad in the long run.

While none of these signs of a cheating boyfriend on their own mean they are cheating, if you find a few of them match up you have just cause to investigate further to find the truth of the matter and end the confusion and pain that arises.

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